im a virgin and i dont intend to give it up until i get married. he knew that when we got together and said he was ok with it. but he talks about it all the time and says he has dreams where we are doing "it" :-s it makes me feel akward and the other day we got into an argument and he asked when am i finally going to give in? he said he gets it that i value myself and he understands and respects it. we have only been going out for 5 MONTHS!! he says its not a big deal and its "fun". that really hurt me because it means alot more to me and if he sees it as just FUN then obviously im not gonna do it with him. hes had sex before with his PREVIOUS girlfriends and that just makes me sick! im not his other girlfriends and it makes me mad to think he expects me to give it up like they did? oh and he does love me he has done alot for me to prove his love but we just dont agree on this one subject. he says i dont understand and that im afraid to have sex. i understand that its not a big deal to some people but i have respect for myself and my dignity. im not afraid i just dont want to! i donno what to do? whats a good comeback when he asks again?
my boyfriend talks about sex alot?
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