my boyfriend and his ex were together for about 6 years, and he broke up with her the beginning of 2010. we've been together for a little over 8 months. it was an online relationship, however he did go to visit her quite a few times (we've always lived in canada, she lives in the states), and he's told me that he tried to initiate sex, he fondled her, but she always yelled at him for it. it makes me uncomfortable that he tried to initiate anything with her, but it's in his past so i'm trying to accept it. he still keeps contact with her through Yahoo messenger, but it's not very often, maybe once every 1-2 months. i know that he has nothing to hide, as he has no problem with me sitting beside him and watching his conversations with her. but it still makes me uncomfortable, and i've told him that. he doesn't understand why. his ex has also contacted me a few times(only when he hasn't been around for a while so she bugs me to find out what he's been up to). him being the only thing she'll talk to me about makes it obvious she's still got feelings for him, and she wants him back, and that drives me crazy.
she's given him a lot of items over the years, nothing personal, as far as i know it's only been anime/game action figures, he still keeps them. we moved a couple months ago, so they're still packed away somewhere, and he hasn't been concerned about them, so i don't think i should be too worried, but he still refuses to get rid of them.
he also still has all the e-mails from her from the whole time they were together. does this mean anything?
am i crazy for being so worried about my boyfriend keeping the items his ex has given him, and keeping contact with her? has anyone else had this problem?
she's given him a lot of items over the years, nothing personal, as far as i know it's only been anime/game action figures, he still keeps them. we moved a couple months ago, so they're still packed away somewhere, and he hasn't been concerned about them, so i don't think i should be too worried, but he still refuses to get rid of them.
he also still has all the e-mails from her from the whole time they were together. does this mean anything?
am i crazy for being so worried about my boyfriend keeping the items his ex has given him, and keeping contact with her? has anyone else had this problem?