When we're out in a restaurant or bar, my boyfriend seems to zero in on cute young women..especially waitresses. How do I handle this? I've not said anything as I don't want to seem jealous and insecure. Yet, I find it hurtful that he finds younger women so attractive. We are both in the same age range..both attractive and fit. He has told me that he thinks I'm gorgeous, very sexy, the best lover, etc. He tells me that he's very happy with me, but his actions don't seem to match his words. Sexually, I know I keep him satisfied.
He used to date a much younger woman. She dumped him and he was heartbroken.
In the beginning, he just talked about other women..about how beautiful a female friend was. Now, he's graduated to looking at other women. A few days ago, we went to a party at a restaurant. He made a comment to a cute young waitress that she was working way too hard and he put his hand on her back. I didn't say anything, but this really bothered me.
I have a long-time friendship with this man. We seemed to be the ideal couple with lots in common and great chemistry. We got involved romantically about 8 months ago. I was very excited about him in the beginning, but his actions are a turn-off! Not sure what to do to turn things around.
He used to date a much younger woman. She dumped him and he was heartbroken.
In the beginning, he just talked about other women..about how beautiful a female friend was. Now, he's graduated to looking at other women. A few days ago, we went to a party at a restaurant. He made a comment to a cute young waitress that she was working way too hard and he put his hand on her back. I didn't say anything, but this really bothered me.
I have a long-time friendship with this man. We seemed to be the ideal couple with lots in common and great chemistry. We got involved romantically about 8 months ago. I was very excited about him in the beginning, but his actions are a turn-off! Not sure what to do to turn things around.