chchchchchcherrybomb
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weekend? Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half. We've been arguing about the fact that my ex boyfriend has invited me to go hiking with him this weekend and I agreed. Now my ex and I have known each other for 11 years! we grew up together and were the best of friends and dated for three years but we ended things because he moved away to germany (his dad is in the air force) but he is coming back to town for two weeks and wants me to go hiking with him like old times (we LOVED hiking growing up) and I haven't been in a while. So anyways back to the problem. My boyfriend thinks that it isn't normal for someone in a relationship to go and spend a weekend with their ex. I see how my ex looks like a threat to him because we have history, but he just needs to grow up and realize that we are just friends now and that I do not see him in that way and It is harmless for me to want to spend a weekend with my best friend that I haven't seen in person in over a year!
I am right, right??
i am NOT bringing my boyfriend with me. I should be able to do what I want and If i want to hang out with my guy friends without him being around I should be able to do it! we've been together long enough for him to realize that there is no competition.
well him moving away wasn't the only reason we split up. there were other reasons but they are too long and personal to tell. and my ex will not try anything! trust me. he is very respectful and it's not like there is any flame left that can be rekindled, there's nothing but friendship between us now. no feelings whatsoever. He's even talking to some girl back home!
I am right, right??
i am NOT bringing my boyfriend with me. I should be able to do what I want and If i want to hang out with my guy friends without him being around I should be able to do it! we've been together long enough for him to realize that there is no competition.
well him moving away wasn't the only reason we split up. there were other reasons but they are too long and personal to tell. and my ex will not try anything! trust me. he is very respectful and it's not like there is any flame left that can be rekindled, there's nothing but friendship between us now. no feelings whatsoever. He's even talking to some girl back home!