So i was checking my email on my bf comp and his was up instead and it had all this sexfinder spam in it so i wanted to see if he responded to any of this stuff so i checked is sent folder. To my surprise he instead had a response to a craigslist post. It basically said how he was impressed that a women said what she wanted lol and that he was tall and handsome and ready to f**k. Also not to worry because he was a beast under his nice boy image and that he f**ks like a beast. Then he signed it ttyl and his real first name! I was furious and confronted him and he said it was just part of a fantasy while he masturbated and that his viewing the responses later was also part of the fantasy.
So some back ground: we have been together for two years and are living together. We have a wonderful time with each other and we are both in are mid twenties. I have caught him looking at ads two months before. Also around this same time he was working a fair in his parents town and on the last night he said he was too tired to drive back so he was going to stay at their house since they were away. And then he could be fresh for work the next day. I thought this was weird but said okay cause he did mention he might to this from time to time since the hours were long. So after he got off the phone with me he called a girl he met from work that, when confronted he admitted he liked, but he said it was nothing, she blew him off and he was just testing how much our relationship meant to him.This is his first big one and we had a possible baby scare about six months before this. This prior stuff led to a huge fight but i thought that was the end of it. So my question is should i believe him when he says that the online stuff is just fantasy? Or is this a sign of trouble. Besides this he is a fantastic sweety pie. SORRY for the novel but i love the guy and need some advice. Thanks.
So some back ground: we have been together for two years and are living together. We have a wonderful time with each other and we are both in are mid twenties. I have caught him looking at ads two months before. Also around this same time he was working a fair in his parents town and on the last night he said he was too tired to drive back so he was going to stay at their house since they were away. And then he could be fresh for work the next day. I thought this was weird but said okay cause he did mention he might to this from time to time since the hours were long. So after he got off the phone with me he called a girl he met from work that, when confronted he admitted he liked, but he said it was nothing, she blew him off and he was just testing how much our relationship meant to him.This is his first big one and we had a possible baby scare about six months before this. This prior stuff led to a huge fight but i thought that was the end of it. So my question is should i believe him when he says that the online stuff is just fantasy? Or is this a sign of trouble. Besides this he is a fantastic sweety pie. SORRY for the novel but i love the guy and need some advice. Thanks.