my boyfriend of 4 years won't have sex with me...... helppppp ?

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There is nothing wrong with me, plenty of people would like to have me. my boyfriend is a germaphobe- not that i am gross- and he is .. afraid of sex. he is 20 and i am 19. i have tried to leave him once before because I feel like sex is somthing i need in a relationship, but he had a complete breakdown. since that, we have tried a few things, but it is obvious he isn't interested. im 19.. i feel like im in my prime and i need to take advantage of it. other than sex, my bf and i are a perfect match. I'm not too sure what I should do, but I am having some strong urges to cheat on him... any suggestions? I don't want to break his heart, but this is really hard for me too.
 
You are in a tough situation. Sex is indeed an important part of any relationship. That is my opinion. I feel your pain, because I have a similar situation with my wife of 10 years. If your boyfriend is indeed AFRAID of sex, then I can't see him getting over that without professional help. Cheating is not the answer if you a really in love. I adore my wife, and that is what has stopped me from cheating on her, even though I am desperate to be able to touch and feel a woman. Decision time for you. If you love him that much, then you will find a way to keep yourself satisfied, and seek professional help. If you want to chat one on one more about this.. email me.
 
ttell him its time to have sex or you will dump him.

unfortunately you have to break his heart to stop his immaturity.

that is very strange. ima guy im not obsessed with sex i like it sometimes. but im not afraid of germs i might catch. wtf?
 
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