My boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex, my beliefs are different from his?

[Marie-Charlotte Roy]

My boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex with him, but I don't want to. He said that we have been dating for a long time an I should trust him. We've been dating since I was 15 he is two years older then me. For the 3 years we been together he has been fine with not having sex or doing anything sexual. But know he just keeps asking. ? I don't want him to think I don't trust him. I don't want to have sex till im married. Because of my religion, my boyfriend doesn't believe in god but he has respected everything till know.

 

[emmiegsmom]

I give you all the credit in the world for not wanting to have sex till your married, good for you. He is just at an age where all his other friends are having sex and I'm sure that he feels ready for it and wants it. You just have to remind him of how you feel and what you believe in. do the two of you have any plans for marriage? Just don't let him talk you into anything that you will be sorry about later on. Good for you honey.

 

[Pyros]

You should not give in just because he wants you to, if you don't want to have sex then don't, its even more important if its part of your religion not to be tempted into this out of guilt.

Make sure you speak to him about it rationally and tell him that your just not ready for this and if he cant accept that your not going to have sex before marriage that you have to start seeing other people. Judge his reaction to this as to whether he will remain loyal to you and chaste until your vows or if you suspect him of cheating, if you believe he will cheat on you then you should break it off asap.