My boyfriend is very aggressive when he is angry.He talks non sense.He even calls me a

Jeni Pears

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prostitute bitch.? Although he calls me by names like prostitute,bitch and slut, once the fight is over he tells that he dint mean it and tells sorry and gives me gifts and surprises and says his intension is just to vent his anger.But whenever he shouts he shouts as if he is meaning it .When he is shouting I used to tell him not to pour words which he does not mean..but whenever he is shouting he tells he is meaning what he says and he keeps shouting with all bad words like calling me a prostitute.If i keep quiet for sometime,he shouts and shouts and he will shout in such a way that I cant take it more and I get frustrated and upset to the core hurting my feelings .If i agree to him and say he is correct and agree that im wrong even if i was right then he will stop shouting.At times even if I agree i was wrong wen im right he will call me a bitch.But how can i everytime agree for something which i never did.Im suffering and I suffer when ever he is angry.But he is a Gem other than the time he gets angry.He loves me more than anything he loves in this world.He lives only for me.He wants me and not bothered about anything in this world than me.He takes care of me,If i cry the next minute he gets out of his anger.But im not a gal who cries for everything.Does it mean I have to cry everytime to stop him getting tooo much angry or use bad-words on me? I dont want to miss him in my life because I trust him soo much.Im sure he will not leave me and go or can live without me? How to make him realise my love..He is not beleiving me when he is angry but after he gets over he says he realises how much im understanding.He is sooo sweet on other times.He is very trustworthy..caring.. very serious in relationships..very responsible...romantic. advice taker. sexy.. satisfying etc.. like everything in him except the time when he is angry.He will shout in such a way tat i cant even stand next to him.Can u guys suggest what to do? Shall i continue with him ? Should I break up jus for one reason which is his anger and untrust? Im very confused.My life is like im very happpy sometimes and very unhappy few times.We have decided to marry soon.Am I in a wrong way.How to handle a life with him?
 
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