Phoolan Devi
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Yes my guy is aggressive but not with me.. To me he is really sweet and behaves nicely enough .. Apart from a fight.. Even in a fight he is ok.. I mean he would shout a little but when he starts feeling that i am getting uneasy.. He tones down his voice and says the same thing in a much acceptable manner..
The problem is that he is aggressive to the world.. Let it be a cab driver.. A waiter at some hotel.. Housekeeper .. And the list goes on.. Yesterday only he got into a horrible fight with a taxi driver when i was with him.. He actually punched him and if seriously gave me goosebumps.. I tried to calm him down but he continued to fight.. Finally the public and the police parted them.. He came back to me.. Obviously i was uneasy and in mild tears too.. He acted normal as if nothing has happened.. Held my hand.. Kissed me.. Hugged me tight enough to make me fine.. Took me for an ice cream and dinner.. I did not speak to him at all.. But he stayed .. I tried to make him understand about his behaviour.. He said he will change himself for the nth time.. Then we came home! All night he was sweet and pamering enough for me to forget the events.. And eventually i did forget...
We are together for 6 years now and will be getting married in 3 years from now.. We are well settled and our families have no objection.. He was not like this initially.. But now he is! I don't doubt his love for me.. But i am just concerned about his behaviour.. Is there anything i can do? Should i take him to a psychiatrist ? Does he need one?
The problem is that he is aggressive to the world.. Let it be a cab driver.. A waiter at some hotel.. Housekeeper .. And the list goes on.. Yesterday only he got into a horrible fight with a taxi driver when i was with him.. He actually punched him and if seriously gave me goosebumps.. I tried to calm him down but he continued to fight.. Finally the public and the police parted them.. He came back to me.. Obviously i was uneasy and in mild tears too.. He acted normal as if nothing has happened.. Held my hand.. Kissed me.. Hugged me tight enough to make me fine.. Took me for an ice cream and dinner.. I did not speak to him at all.. But he stayed .. I tried to make him understand about his behaviour.. He said he will change himself for the nth time.. Then we came home! All night he was sweet and pamering enough for me to forget the events.. And eventually i did forget...
We are together for 6 years now and will be getting married in 3 years from now.. We are well settled and our families have no objection.. He was not like this initially.. But now he is! I don't doubt his love for me.. But i am just concerned about his behaviour.. Is there anything i can do? Should i take him to a psychiatrist ? Does he need one?