(I feel this category would be a great choice, as I would think most of you have experience & deal with this kinds of things.)
He's completely faithful to me & is a great guy. Isn't the type to check out girls or even give them attention when he's with me. We've been together for a little over a year & have been in a long distance relationship for half of it. We have future plans with each other & I have no worries at all concerning trust. We've both been hurt in past relationships.
He went down to the beach to spend the weekend with one of his buddies (who has kids & is married), and the guy hosts these contests for charity. He got to judge a bikini contest. I honestly didn't care & told him to have fun, no big deal. They posted a youtube video of it & me being me I watched it & told him I watched it. Gosh was it hard to watch. I wasn't analyzing his every move, but it was obvious some of them caught his eye. I laughed after it all, but now I have this disgusting feeling. If he can judge these girls & figure out who has the best body, what does that say about me. I'm in good shape & am only 22. He's 30. I know he loves me, but it made me gag seeing him stare & talk to them. Again, he did NOTHING wrong, but I felt so uncomfortable watching it. We laugh about it together, but it still bothers me a bit.
He's completely faithful to me & is a great guy. Isn't the type to check out girls or even give them attention when he's with me. We've been together for a little over a year & have been in a long distance relationship for half of it. We have future plans with each other & I have no worries at all concerning trust. We've both been hurt in past relationships.
He went down to the beach to spend the weekend with one of his buddies (who has kids & is married), and the guy hosts these contests for charity. He got to judge a bikini contest. I honestly didn't care & told him to have fun, no big deal. They posted a youtube video of it & me being me I watched it & told him I watched it. Gosh was it hard to watch. I wasn't analyzing his every move, but it was obvious some of them caught his eye. I laughed after it all, but now I have this disgusting feeling. If he can judge these girls & figure out who has the best body, what does that say about me. I'm in good shape & am only 22. He's 30. I know he loves me, but it made me gag seeing him stare & talk to them. Again, he did NOTHING wrong, but I felt so uncomfortable watching it. We laugh about it together, but it still bothers me a bit.