My boyfriend is a super freak and i am a virgin, should i leave the relationship?
He admitted that he gets horny and is not a virgin but that he does not want to take my virginity, at least not yet. He said he doesn't think I know what horny means and I said virgins feel things too. Then I was like so how could you deal with being horny if I am your girlfriend. He said "I don't know we can probably find ways together because you said you get horny too right?" And I said yea I do but I'm not sure what that includes and he said that is why he said we can figure it out together. However, now that I think about I think that I think that these ways would be sexual. Even if we don't have sex (penis in vagina)...do you think that he is mislead to believe that all other ways are okay? Should I tell him that we are better off as friends? This is my first relationship but I am very attracted to him. He isn't pressuring me now, and we are never alone in a place where it could happen, it was just a topic that came up. Do you think he is trying to trick me and he has ulterior motives? What is your opinion? He's my first bf and would be my first everything ..and he knows it. He's been a great boyfriend so far. I'm just cautious of the future... What do you think?
He admitted that he gets horny and is not a virgin but that he does not want to take my virginity, at least not yet. He said he doesn't think I know what horny means and I said virgins feel things too. Then I was like so how could you deal with being horny if I am your girlfriend. He said "I don't know we can probably find ways together because you said you get horny too right?" And I said yea I do but I'm not sure what that includes and he said that is why he said we can figure it out together. However, now that I think about I think that I think that these ways would be sexual. Even if we don't have sex (penis in vagina)...do you think that he is mislead to believe that all other ways are okay? Should I tell him that we are better off as friends? This is my first relationship but I am very attracted to him. He isn't pressuring me now, and we are never alone in a place where it could happen, it was just a topic that came up. Do you think he is trying to trick me and he has ulterior motives? What is your opinion? He's my first bf and would be my first everything ..and he knows it. He's been a great boyfriend so far. I'm just cautious of the future... What do you think?