my boyfriend has had sex before i feel terrible :(?

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Nini

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im a virgin and i wanted it to be special for us both. like the first time. now im just disappointed about why he didnt tell me that before i fell in love with him:( there is no way im gonna leave him but this was very important to me even though u might think its stupid. i wanted us to do it when we are married. ive never even been touched by anyone other than him. and i cant even kiss him now without some other girls picture running through my brain :( i feel like crying all the time. i know its crazyy HELP :( what do i tell him?
 
Look, the first time is nothing special as you will realise one day. In fact, it's special in how dire and disappointing it is. It's like giving you a trumpet (assuming you're not a trumpet player.) If I give you a trumpet, do you think your first time is going to be any good? It won't be!

By not being a virgin, hopefully he won't be quite so crap in bed. Enjoy it.

Bob
 
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