My boyfriend gets mad at me when I do not have a comment or even react to

squid

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often explicit sex talk..? My guy lives a bout an hour away, i don't see him that often due to the fact that i work alot we text and message each other online.. Either way I am sort of an introvert, i have manners, I don't like childish things or behavior constantly, I like to have fun when its appropriate. but in no way am i this sheltered totally shy innocent girl dont get me wrong.. The problem lies within my lack of sex desire. I don't care if i have it or not truthfully. I'm not thinking about it all the time.. and if and when i do i will say things to let him no.. sucks we are not together all the time when this happens for me.... But he on the other hand will say these things a lot, and its very nice to no that your wanted and what someone would like to do with you, but I really get annoyed when he does this.. Is that normal? I don't want to hear it all the time.. I don't even care what he wants some of the time.. Its like i feel pressure because if i don't say something he gets mad. I react with a "lol" or and "oh yeah".. but i don't follow through with the sex talk because i just don't want to. He gets upset with me telling me that i don't want him, or that i'm just to closed off, but truthfully this is how i've always been. Never a big sex talker.. never caring about it all to much. So i don't react, a fight ensues... what is wrong or what should i do.. any advice.?
 
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