My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me...?

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We are both young in our 20's me 20 and him 26..and my bf turns me down to have sex with him most of the time. Like we have sex once a week and i know he loves me.....like tonight we were going to have sex and I was on top of him (with our clothes on) and joking around and my private area was on his ****...trying to turn him on..then i leaned down and started kissing him..and then he was like more into cuddling..and I try again....and then he says "im just not feeling it". I got upset and he knew it...whats wrong with him? I asked him if its me..and he said no..Im sad!! help..



He does say I don't do enough during sex...and my legs get in his way...and he did gain 20lb since we met too....hard for him to perform?.(9 months ago we met)


He is stressed about his school and money too.
and any little thing during sex..his cock will go soft..and i have to try make it hard again then..and then if something little happens again..it goes soft..and sometimes we dont finish.
 
I think your boyfriend is currently taking antidepressant pills. Not wanting sex is one of the side-effect, getting fatter is another. You should really find out if this is the reason why. The third side-effect, out of the many antidepressant side-effect, is zombie like which causes him to careless about anything and anyone, hence the word "zombie".
 
The funny thing these days is that its usualy the guy who is trying to find the girls active side but your guy kinda sounds down on himself - when he is in the mood to pleasure you then surprise him by saying you want to give him an erotic massage (any kinda massage would sound good!)
Slowly work your magic so he picks up those aroused excited feelings and you will find he will want that time with you more often!
Goodluck!!!
 
Guys only turn down sex for three reasons, they can't get it up, they are cheating, or they are dead. Which one sounds like your boyfriend?
 
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