so im 16 and he's 17
he tells me he feels bad when we go out to the mall because he cant buy me any of the stuff i want, and he wishes he could have a car to see me whenever he wanted..and i told him, well why dont you get a job if you want money and he says he cant deal with a job if he already has to balance out school and baseball and then having time for me.
but see here is the problem I have a job, I am an IB honor student, I play softball and soccer and can still manage to have time for him, whenever he buys me gifts he uses his parents money and it bothers me that he complains about it and doesnt do anything to solve the problem,
so here's my question..HOW DO I TELL HIM TO GET A JOB WITHOUT HIM GETTING MAD
btw we've been dating for 2years
he tells me he feels bad when we go out to the mall because he cant buy me any of the stuff i want, and he wishes he could have a car to see me whenever he wanted..and i told him, well why dont you get a job if you want money and he says he cant deal with a job if he already has to balance out school and baseball and then having time for me.
but see here is the problem I have a job, I am an IB honor student, I play softball and soccer and can still manage to have time for him, whenever he buys me gifts he uses his parents money and it bothers me that he complains about it and doesnt do anything to solve the problem,
so here's my question..HOW DO I TELL HIM TO GET A JOB WITHOUT HIM GETTING MAD
btw we've been dating for 2years
