Tracy Star
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In my younger years I was extremely promiscuous. And I was completely ashamed of it and I lied to my current boyfriend about it. At first it was little lies and then he started asking more specific questions, like how many times I did a certain act with someone and who i did it all with. Just crazy and ridiculous questions. I don't think any one knows the exact amount of times they have done something (please tell me if i am wrong). Anyways, we have been together for a year and 4 months. I told him every detail that I could remember back in March. He would continually put me down not only for my past but I was having trouble getting a job. I had just graduate and put myself through college as a server/bartender. He would put me down for that saying that I had no experience in the job career area and if I had applied myself better maybe I would get somewhere. But I chose the easy way by staying at a job for 4 years that wouldn't help me pursue a career. Mind you he is in sales and doesn't have a degree. He is just really good at his job.
Finally, he still sometimes puts me down about my past and thinks I am still lying which I understand but we fight about it almost every week still and he says we can't get married or move forward in our life unless I am completely honest with him. I am being completely honest with him. What do I do? When we are happy I am happier than I ever thought I could be and I see a beautiful future with him and having everything I could ever want with him. But we fight so often and I don't know if he will ever get past this and he refuses to see someone. Do I stick it out or not?
Finally, he still sometimes puts me down about my past and thinks I am still lying which I understand but we fight about it almost every week still and he says we can't get married or move forward in our life unless I am completely honest with him. I am being completely honest with him. What do I do? When we are happy I am happier than I ever thought I could be and I see a beautiful future with him and having everything I could ever want with him. But we fight so often and I don't know if he will ever get past this and he refuses to see someone. Do I stick it out or not?