Sdenverblueeyes724
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I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. Intimacy has always been an issue. Our tiny world of sex went from a couple of times a month to, well its been 3 months. He says I pressure him and that is always tired, translating for him that he can't perform. I tried a month ago, it was hot until he went soft. He gets annoyed anytime I ask to cuddle. He only pecks me on the lips and tickling me is his form of romantic touching. He didn't use to be this way. I also know he looks up porn the one day our schedule is opposite of each other. I know he isn't cheating. I'm not ugly. He tells me every couple of weeks, when I get frustrated at him for the lack of sex, that I'm his soul mate. We are even planning on buying a house this summer. I just don't want my 'soul mate' to be only be my friend. When I do mention anything about the lack of sex, he gets annoyed or shuts down. He won't face the problem. I love him, hence why I'm still with him. I just don't know how to wake him up and realize he is losing me. And yes, I've tried wearing sexy lingerie, he either is tired and says remember this look for later or he gets soft a minute later. Help!