Every week we seem to have something to disagree on. We love each other and want it to work but im wondering if we are kidding ourselves. We argue over stupid things and it ends with him not wanting to talk and me getting upset. We used to be best friends, it is so hard. He is free this Saturday night and says he will see how he feels whether he spends it with me or not. Its 2245 on Friday night and im like well let me know then. He thinks its okay to leave it till last minute. We spend every Wednesday and Sunday nights overnight together and usually all day Monday as its both our days off. He has his children at the weekend usually but this weekend he only has them Friday so i thought we could go out or stay in together whatever on Saturday night as my son is away to his dads but he just said "i'll see how i feel". I know he is having a hard time as he just found out from his young daughter that her mum plans to move oit of the country in a few months and has already looked at property, thing is the mother never told my boyfriend. He would rarely get to see his wee daughter then. But even though with all this why is he making me suffer by making it feel as if he would wait around to see if he gets a better offer before wanting to hang out with me. Im 32 and he is 41. He even got our holidays booked during this argument (very expensive one) for October so I know he isn't planning on finishing with me but i cant understand why he would rather stay in and watch tv on a saturday than spend it with me. It hurts bad as we rarely both get a weekend night that is child free. Sometimes i feel like he's cheating but then i think not as the night we are apart we always spend about an hour talking on the phone and text each other regularly in the evenings. Im feeling pretty low right now and feel like telling him i need some space to collect my thoughts and ask him not to come over on Sunday. Help please.
The arguing every week thing is just quite recent, maybe 2 weeks or so.
@ fizixx - we don't argue when we are together, we have a great time, brilliant laughs etc. we tend to argue when we are apart and its always about time together.
The arguing every week thing is just quite recent, maybe 2 weeks or so.
@ fizixx - we don't argue when we are together, we have a great time, brilliant laughs etc. we tend to argue when we are apart and its always about time together.