My boyfrend lied to me once. Should I try to build trust again or leave now?

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I've been dating a guy for six months, we work in same building for different deparments at different shifts. I left work to go to his place while he was still working. I was online and I noticed he had recently visited a singles website. He claimed he didn't know what it was I was talking about and it couldn't possibly be him. Then he says other people have access to the computer and one of his friends probably logged into the site. At the time when I couldn't find evidence to link him; he tried to say "I told you it wasn't me! I'll see you when I get home" making me feel guilty for possibly wrongfully accusing him. Well I was able to find he created an account,but deleted it the same day. He lied! He said he went to site because he heard his ex had a kid & was on there; he wanted to kno if it was true . He tells me he loves me, he only wants me, and he made a huge mistake. He admitted he was wrong for lying, he said he did it to avoid arguing. He never contacted her and he's sorry.
 
No excuse for a lie. My own take on it is to break up with him and move on. There might be more drama for you if you stay involved with the guy.
 
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