My bf thinks I'm teaching him.. this is hard to have any serious converstion?

Hannah

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He has this graduation thesis which needs to be done by 31th.
hasn't even started yet. he works 7hours a day.
I think the pressure is very hard to him at the moment.
all though I'd like to encourage him, everytime when we talk about these things, he says "I know, I know, you don't know it. you don't know it. would you please stop, you're not my mom."
he anyhow avoids the talk. I'm very disappointed with this actually.
I want to TALK. then we could find a solution together and could be deeper in our love.
I told him that actually he could start doing it earlier, everything is just excuse for himself, it's just one week left but he could do it.
he was annoyed by me saying the word excuse. but actually it is!
he went on shopping today. if he took it as serious as he says, why wouldn't he start it right now.

What should I tell my boyfriend who takes all my words as complaints and things to make him annoyed?
I didn't tell those in a bad way just it was hard to understand he hates to hear what ha has to do. we're serious to each other, I'm the one who can tell these things. I was too sad. what should I tell him to feel better?
 
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