My bf of 4 years has said in the past i do not initiate sex enough. how am i...

angel

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...supposed to? since he has said that i have tried many times, but get rejected 95% of the time. i try strutting around naked (i am 27 & not unattractive or overweight), hinting or straight asking if he wants to. but i get a "no", "how was i supposed to know?" or "i'm sorry i cant just turn it on". but his usual way of showing me that he wants it, he just pulls his thing out and i can take the hint. i know he has healthy libedo (watches lots of adult movies). i'm very down due to the rejection, as it seems sex only comes at his time of desire, to which i give in just to get it. what i want to know is how im supposed to initiate sex and how to better deal with the low self esteem i feel when rejected. thank you to all serious answers.
 
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