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Manders
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I have been dating this guy for 5 years and in the beginning of our relationship we had sex frequently! But for the past few years it seems hard to get anything from him. I notice he goes online to look at porn every so often which means he masterbates but when i start putting the moves on him he always says he is tired. I dont mind that he watches pron because i enjoy it too, but it upsets me when, like today, i try to get some from him and he says he is tired and come to find out, he went online earlier today. I know he isnt cheating on me but it is really starting to bother me that he has enough energy to jerk of to girls in videos rather than to the real thing he has waiting for him day in and day out.
I have tried many times to discuss this with him but he gets irritated with me like im nagging him. In my eyes, guys want sex usually more than girls and if im putting myself out there for him, why wont he take it??
I dont know why he would be bored, i have tried introducing new things like toys, lotion and positions. He says he loves me and that im hot and he has an engagement ring so he isnt bored, he says he is tired alot but is it less energy masterbating than to have sex?
I have tried many times to discuss this with him but he gets irritated with me like im nagging him. In my eyes, guys want sex usually more than girls and if im putting myself out there for him, why wont he take it??
I dont know why he would be bored, i have tried introducing new things like toys, lotion and positions. He says he loves me and that im hot and he has an engagement ring so he isnt bored, he says he is tired alot but is it less energy masterbating than to have sex?