My bf and I had a argument a serious one for the first time in the 4yrs we've dated.?

M

Megg

New member
It go to a point where he started pushing me and being up in my face that I reacted and slapped him. I apologized and his parents know what happened not mine but they don't believe he would treat me that way or even lift his hands at me which he did. Now I am being treated like a pariah by his parents and his dad is trying to cause trouble in our relationship. Even when I try to talk to my bf we always end up arguing about it. How do I deal with this and they way his parents are treating me?
I feel like crap most of the time and his sister-in-law has told me what his parents say about me and i don't know if I should tell him what they say. I just don't want to get into a stupid argument again. I really do love my bf but I can't make it last if he can't see what his parents are doing.
 
If your boyfriend is pushing you and yelling and getting in your face...
It's time to move on..!
If his parents are treating you badly, it's time to move on...!

Pushing can be the begining of more violence to come later...
And usually once an abuser, always an abuser, unless they get help...

Don't let anyone push you around, or hang around someone who pushes you to
the point you feel like you have to hit them to get them to back off...
Next time he might hit you back...
You honestly will have alot more to worry about then being pushed...
Get out of the relationship...
 
Honestly, his parents have ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with your relationship with your boyfriend. It's more than really irrelevant to their lives. And if your boyfriend's father starts causing trouble you tell him straight up "I am sorry, and I understand that you're his father, but you honestly need to stop doing this. As much as entitlement you think you have, is not as much as you really have in reality." Another thing, don't care what his parents think of you because at the end of the day, it's what your significant other thinks of is all what matters. I hope things work out. Good luck.
 
tell him that he scared you when he got in your face like that and you didnt mean to hit him. You need your space that he cant invade like he did, tell his parents that you spoke to their son and-hopefully-worked it all out.
 
ok his parents have NOTHIN to do wit ur relationship. plus if u bf comes up to ur face yelling and screamin, pushin u around..its time to move on
 
Back
Top