Hi everyone. I have very tough kinky 4b hair. I do not like it either which is probably not a surprise. But it has been bothering nowadays sooo much because I am not sure what to do with it right now. I do not want a relaxer or perm. Or a weave. but i keep thinking of what it would be like if I wore it as a fro. The thing is I never ever would. However, it if it were to stay down and be a little less kinky, I'd consider it. So does anyone know how I can make my hair with softer, more manageable curls?? And it keep my hair from turning into a fro even after water touches it? Because I do not want to keep myself from going in the pool or water in general. And like I said it bothers me so much that I have hair like this and it shouldn't. So please if you answer, please say something if u want to remind it is really not as bad as I feel it is. 