She shouldn't even be staying over at her boyfriends house right now, she's freaking 16 years old. You know what she should be doing is listening to her mother, and not being a little brat. It's her first car, it shouldn't even be a nice car like you got her. A 2009? I'd be happy with a junk car. I'm 18, and saying this about your daughter. Tell her to suck it up, and no don't get her a new freaking car. What the hell is wrong with you?