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mum and dad arguing often, what can i do?
- Thread starter Mike
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cooloday
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i'm afraid there's nothing you can do.
most importantly, don't take it your responsibility to "make them more happy". i know that you love them, and i think you are a good kid.
but they are adults. they have their personality, their experiences and their own choices. don't try to imagine that you know better than they are or that you can decide something for them. they have to sort out their own problems.
otherwise you would start having personality problem yourself and you'll ruin your own life later.
and so are you. you have to take care of yourself and your own problems, because sometiimes they might be too occupied with their problems that they cannot or forget to take care of yours.
if you can take care of yourself, your studies, your social life and everything, you can take a large trunk off their back and they can concentrate on their own problems.
having said that, i dont mean that you should not talk to them when they are calmer. tell them how you feel.
sorry about the whole thing.
most importantly, don't take it your responsibility to "make them more happy". i know that you love them, and i think you are a good kid.
but they are adults. they have their personality, their experiences and their own choices. don't try to imagine that you know better than they are or that you can decide something for them. they have to sort out their own problems.
otherwise you would start having personality problem yourself and you'll ruin your own life later.
and so are you. you have to take care of yourself and your own problems, because sometiimes they might be too occupied with their problems that they cannot or forget to take care of yours.
if you can take care of yourself, your studies, your social life and everything, you can take a large trunk off their back and they can concentrate on their own problems.
having said that, i dont mean that you should not talk to them when they are calmer. tell them how you feel.
sorry about the whole thing.
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Your Demon
Guest
ok u cnt do anything 2 stop it
but some things i use 2 try
sometimes if i herd them yelling
i wud wait til they came in a be sobbing
as parents tehy ask wots wrong
now dnt seem like a baby
jst say nothin
they will ask agen
mayb say jst stop fitein
get a nice pic of ur and them
put it in a frame
put it in ur room plain site for them 2 c
but some things i use 2 try
sometimes if i herd them yelling
i wud wait til they came in a be sobbing
as parents tehy ask wots wrong
now dnt seem like a baby
jst say nothin
they will ask agen
mayb say jst stop fitein
get a nice pic of ur and them
put it in a frame
put it in ur room plain site for them 2 c
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Pictureless
Guest
write a poem about how you feel sad because your mom and dad keeps fighting and leave it lying in the open on purpose so that they'll see it and they'll understand how you feel.