Just got off the phone with gijoey1980. We have confirmed this:
For those who are not getting a 3g icon, if you write all 12 nv items from whiterabbit.org, it should come up with the icon. If you just write 5 nv items, you must use qpst and change your username and password on the M.IP tab and the PPP config tab(including Rm, Um, and AN tabs). This has now been confirmed by 2 different sources.
EDIT: If you did use the ones from whiterabbit, and you are still not getting the icon, try the qpst suggestion I mentioned.