Mother-in-law problem, please help. She's a good person in general but we have

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different views in life,? we have different likes, characters and I know that deep inside eventhough she doesn't say it she's secretly watching everything I do. We live with her in her house to save money but we pay for utilities. She always says things about saving electricity, water, etc. even food. For once I want to feel like I'm home and doesn't have to watch my actions so she doesn't think negative about me. Another thing is she makes me feel like I'm a guest in her house. Example, when I cook I still have to offer her or she would say she'll make/buy her own. Of course it hurts me when she does that. I've told my husband about what I feel several times and recently he said this is just about my insecurities. I want him to understand that no two adult women can stay in one roof, much more so, inlaws. I told my husband to talk to other women about my situation but he says everybody's different. What should I do? I want to move out already but our budget won't be enough to rent. Am I wrong to feel this way?
I just got laid off last month, I'm looking for another job. We actually have a house but it's 2 hrs away from our job so we stay with my mil. Now that I'm not working I want to stay in our house but I can't leave my husband at my mil's.
 
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