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sweet76baby
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Okay me and my in law have never gotten along. Eveytime I look, she is giving unwanted or needed advice to me about my life or marriage. She has caused a lot of conflict between my spouse and me on several occasions and never ceases to try to undercut or insult me (in sneaky ways) in front of others. For the most part I can ignore it because I know I am more intelligent than her but this time I don't know if I can. It will be the one year anniversary of my in law's death in about 6 weeks. My oldest daughter's birthday is in about 5 weeks (not my hubby's biological). 4 days ago I texted everyone about her birthday party, the next day I'm told that the memorial for him has been changed FOR THE VERY SAME DAY!!!! I feel like she did it out of spite for me. although I can't prove it. When I asked hubby why it was changed he said that he really didn't know. What should I do?? I know this will bring ALOT of conflict. No way do I want to be disrespecful because I really like and miss my in law. But I'm just so mad right now!!!! Should I say anything to the crazy *itch or what???