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Tina
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Hi guys, I'll lay out my problem in line format in the hopes it would make it easier and less of a bore to read
I've been with my husband for 14 years
We have 3 young children
I was stupid at 17 and married him even though he and his mother smoked weed TOGETHER and she treated me like dirt. (12yrs ago)
When my children was born she was there for me
She has since tried to be nice but has never apologized to me
She is money hungry (I even paid for her to move out of her house 13 years ago)
My husband no longer does that, he has a great career and more importantly is an extremely devoted loving father who helps with the kids and the house
The problem is, I don't TRUST and I resent the heck out of his mother no matter how fake nice she pretends to be, she doesn't even call her grandkids but pretends she loves them so much. whatever.
Anyway, due to this and mistakes of the past, she is regrettably my mother in law and my husband (albeit a great spouse and dad) is a momma's boy.
Why can't HE see what a horrible person his mother is. WHO DOES DRUGS WITH THEIR CHILD??
He still loves her to death and was mad at me because he finally realized I don't want anything to do with her anymore and I don't want my kids going over there even if she stopped years ago. (so she says)
He says I should never try to deny her the right to see her grandchildren especially when she made a cake for him (this past weekend) but I honestly didn't even care enough about her to feel bad they didn't go. (The kids didn't know what she did)
OK, not so brief but if anyone can read through this I'd thank you with all my heart. What do you think, I could use some advice. Thanks guys
I've been with my husband for 14 years
We have 3 young children
I was stupid at 17 and married him even though he and his mother smoked weed TOGETHER and she treated me like dirt. (12yrs ago)
When my children was born she was there for me
She has since tried to be nice but has never apologized to me
She is money hungry (I even paid for her to move out of her house 13 years ago)
My husband no longer does that, he has a great career and more importantly is an extremely devoted loving father who helps with the kids and the house
The problem is, I don't TRUST and I resent the heck out of his mother no matter how fake nice she pretends to be, she doesn't even call her grandkids but pretends she loves them so much. whatever.
Anyway, due to this and mistakes of the past, she is regrettably my mother in law and my husband (albeit a great spouse and dad) is a momma's boy.
Why can't HE see what a horrible person his mother is. WHO DOES DRUGS WITH THEIR CHILD??
He still loves her to death and was mad at me because he finally realized I don't want anything to do with her anymore and I don't want my kids going over there even if she stopped years ago. (so she says)
He says I should never try to deny her the right to see her grandchildren especially when she made a cake for him (this past weekend) but I honestly didn't even care enough about her to feel bad they didn't go. (The kids didn't know what she did)
OK, not so brief but if anyone can read through this I'd thank you with all my heart. What do you think, I could use some advice. Thanks guys