My girlfriend and i have been having sex for a little less than a year now but we havnt even had sex more than 10 times. I can't understand why it is that she doesnt want to do it. She said we could have sex more often once i get my own car and that happend but no changes in sex. Then i talked to her trying not to be pushy and she said that we could more often but no improvements. When we first started dating i got hand jobs for nine months and rarely complained so i think iv proven the point that im not in this for sex because i do care about her alot.She says she is afraid of getting pregnant.I understand that and try to respect that but we use condoms, time her period, and i dont blow my load in her. Lately it seems like she isnt even in the mood for ANYTHING. Things have been a little stressful between us lately and i think its partly because iv been on edge about not getting as much as i want. She doesnt enjoy giving blow jobs that much so lately i havnt been asking for them so she doesnt get mad at me for being pushy even though i enjoy a good BJ. So basicly when we see eachother i either have to ask for physical, dont get any physical, or i give her what ever she wants and then i get an HJ. If i jokingly say something about a blow job or sex she gives me a cranky "no" or someother type of phrase that means shut the hell up. Its almost like shes just a big physical party pooper lately. lol none of this is even that big of a deal and it doesnt matter all that much to me but all of these things make me wonder if she is even physicaly attractive to me because on top of all this she dresses all cute for school (to look good for the guys) and will tell me she is horny in school (because all of the guys talk to her and flirt with her) but on the weekends she wears sweat pants over to my house and she just wants to sit around or bake. I have always tried my hardest to accept what she wants to give and not ask for more but lately iv been getting really sick of hand jobs because i can basically do that my self. I just need some tips as to what i can say to her to get her to think in my shoes, get her to realize that she is being silly about being afraid of being pregnant, or maybe just some tips to get her horny. idk ive tried many things. Everytime she is over i give her long back rubs, rub the inside of her thighs, play with her hair, kiss her neck, playfully tickle her, or if i think shes more in the mood play around in her pants little bit but none of seems to work she just goes back to being the party pooper. Maybe if the ladies could tell me what im doing wrong or right so i know what to do and what not to do.
More sex with my girlfriend?
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