...visit now what to do? I would feel uncomfortable around her after taking me to court. She was not nice to mom and embarrassed her a lot I told her not to do it but she did anyway. She was always asking for money for things like boat house etc. And I never asked for anything I always helped them and grandparents or there friends and mom told every one that ,but sister said at court I had talked mom into giving most the trust to me not her but my mom told me she wanted me to have all of it but the lawyer did not tell mom that she needed to change the IRA's to my name so sister got her half and dads half of the IRA's I don't like people thinking I did something wrong when I did not . Then some relatives say I should for give her and have something to do with her because her health is bad and on dialysis , but I saved her life 10 times and more by taking her to the ER or she would be deed and I took care of her even though we never were close growing up . What does she want , she has even try ed to cheat me out of money in the past and she try ed to cheat mom out of even 10 cents also she argued with mom a lot . So what do you think I should do should I stay away and if I run into her at a store tell her what I think or just don't talk to here the only thing is I wonder if she is telling the truth about getting a kidney transplant in 2 years . Also she has a x daughter in law with the grand kids that i love and want to talk to them and see them but the x daughter in law screamed at me one day i called to talk to kids & she said she will press harassment charges on me if I call or send them anything so I can't till they are of age in tx. I wish I could call and talk to her mom and ask if i could talk to the kids or see them if the mother would call me so I can talk so she won't press charges on me . I am afraid they will forget me because the little one is maybe 6 and the Other is 10 or 13 & I have not been able to talk to them in about 2 years.The kids dad does not have anything to do with them he Hadley ever sees them. I don't think he is paying child support because my mom was paying it before she died. Can some one help give advice if they have been through this or are a legal person who knows what I should do. Thanks
Oh I have a lawyer and the court case is over and the lawyer said I have to wait till the kids are of age to Contact them unless she lets them call me. I just wondered if It would be ok to Contact the kids grandma even if I don't get to talk to them if she would just tell them that I have called and asked about them.
Oh I have a lawyer and the court case is over and the lawyer said I have to wait till the kids are of age to Contact them unless she lets them call me. I just wondered if It would be ok to Contact the kids grandma even if I don't get to talk to them if she would just tell them that I have called and asked about them.