matilda.asks
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I work with this guy, we work in separate departments so never see each other. We have been hanging out for about 3 months (as long as I've been there). These are things we do together:
-Lunch 3-4 times a week
-Coffee nearly every day. Sometimes he will pick me up a cup and drop it off if I'm running late.
-Occasional dinner/coffee on the weekends or even after work
-Drinks after work, usually 2 drinks each max.
-Constantly texting from the morning until bedtime. It isn't always immediate, but they consist of several conversations of any topic: some personal, some about work, some about random things.
-We sat at the park and had coffee for about 2 hours, this was after a glass of wine
-He invited me to his house to watch movies and he got wine for the occasion. He even took pictures of the wine at the store to get my approval.
Basically, things you would do with either a significant other or best friend. I see him glancing at me from time to time when he doesn't think I can see. I also see him checking out other girls, very obvious unfortunately.
Tonight we went for a drink after work and he followed this one girl with his eyes as she walked by twice. Like full on staring. Does he not think this bothers me/makes me feel sad? I got the check and said I was tired. I had just had it tonight and I'm going out of town tomorrow. Maybe this time apart will allow him to miss my company? I'm so confused.
-Lunch 3-4 times a week
-Coffee nearly every day. Sometimes he will pick me up a cup and drop it off if I'm running late.
-Occasional dinner/coffee on the weekends or even after work
-Drinks after work, usually 2 drinks each max.
-Constantly texting from the morning until bedtime. It isn't always immediate, but they consist of several conversations of any topic: some personal, some about work, some about random things.
-We sat at the park and had coffee for about 2 hours, this was after a glass of wine
-He invited me to his house to watch movies and he got wine for the occasion. He even took pictures of the wine at the store to get my approval.
Basically, things you would do with either a significant other or best friend. I see him glancing at me from time to time when he doesn't think I can see. I also see him checking out other girls, very obvious unfortunately.
Tonight we went for a drink after work and he followed this one girl with his eyes as she walked by twice. Like full on staring. Does he not think this bothers me/makes me feel sad? I got the check and said I was tired. I had just had it tonight and I'm going out of town tomorrow. Maybe this time apart will allow him to miss my company? I'm so confused.