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darkpotameides45
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My husband is in the marines and he is in Japan doing a special deployment.
We normally get along great. We have been married for 1 1/2 years
He lies about dumb stuff because he is immature (which is a major issue for me)
Since he has been gone he has been very loving and seems caring and calls all the time
However,I caught wind of a suggestive email he sent to another woman.
I demanded his FaceBook password and sure enough he was sending emails to this girl telling her she was hot and they should "chill"
I didn't freak out, I just ask him to not talk to her. I checked back and he was still talking to her (they don't even know each other really) He admitted that he knew he was wrong but did it anyway.
After 3 times of messaging her it exploded into a horrible argument. where I told him I couldn't trust him (and I can't)
Because he was going behind my back all the time I demanded his Myspace Pswd 3 days ago (only cause I can't trust a word he says now)
sure enough he sent this message to a mutual friend.
"i really do care about you and if anyone hurts you i swear i ill do a lot more than cole ever will. u can still call me whenever you want i have a diff. number now which i will give to you later but for now just let me know miss ya, love ya.plz talk to me soon. I DO CARE A LOT ABOUT YOU. but i cant say it out loud b/c of ERICA.."
and I am Erica......his wife
I don't want to leave him while he is deployed. But as you can see there are deeper issues.
He is coming back in one month and I am supposing to be moving back to California with him where he is stationed. (I am with my family while he is gone)
I just don't know if want to pick up my whole life(again) and move back there.If its going to be a trend
should I take this risk? I mean he lies all the time.I am in my early 20's and don't want to waste my life on someone who disrespects me.
I haven't yet talked to him about that last message to another girl. Sounds like he is looking for someone better.
Am I in for trouble if i go back with him? Its clearly a deeper rooted issue. This one instance wouldn't be so bad but its happened 3 different times.
Or should I have faith and try to make it work and be there when his bus pulls in?
Because we don't see each other at the moment, it makes it harder
I don't know what to do, I would never treat him like this.
please help! Would you leave your man during a non-combat deployment if you couldn't trust him?
We normally get along great. We have been married for 1 1/2 years
He lies about dumb stuff because he is immature (which is a major issue for me)
Since he has been gone he has been very loving and seems caring and calls all the time
However,I caught wind of a suggestive email he sent to another woman.
I demanded his FaceBook password and sure enough he was sending emails to this girl telling her she was hot and they should "chill"
I didn't freak out, I just ask him to not talk to her. I checked back and he was still talking to her (they don't even know each other really) He admitted that he knew he was wrong but did it anyway.
After 3 times of messaging her it exploded into a horrible argument. where I told him I couldn't trust him (and I can't)
Because he was going behind my back all the time I demanded his Myspace Pswd 3 days ago (only cause I can't trust a word he says now)
sure enough he sent this message to a mutual friend.
"i really do care about you and if anyone hurts you i swear i ill do a lot more than cole ever will. u can still call me whenever you want i have a diff. number now which i will give to you later but for now just let me know miss ya, love ya.plz talk to me soon. I DO CARE A LOT ABOUT YOU. but i cant say it out loud b/c of ERICA.."
and I am Erica......his wife
I don't want to leave him while he is deployed. But as you can see there are deeper issues.
He is coming back in one month and I am supposing to be moving back to California with him where he is stationed. (I am with my family while he is gone)
I just don't know if want to pick up my whole life(again) and move back there.If its going to be a trend
should I take this risk? I mean he lies all the time.I am in my early 20's and don't want to waste my life on someone who disrespects me.
I haven't yet talked to him about that last message to another girl. Sounds like he is looking for someone better.
Am I in for trouble if i go back with him? Its clearly a deeper rooted issue. This one instance wouldn't be so bad but its happened 3 different times.
Or should I have faith and try to make it work and be there when his bus pulls in?
Because we don't see each other at the moment, it makes it harder
I don't know what to do, I would never treat him like this.
please help! Would you leave your man during a non-combat deployment if you couldn't trust him?