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Marcelle L
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My husband came back from his first deployment a few weeks ago. We were apart for 15 months. It was hard on both of us but we love each other very much. I am just a little confused about some of his reactions. Is it normal that sometimes I feel as if we were strangers? Will this go away? Is this how you felt too and took time to readjust to life? I have read in some comments that spouses coming back from the war zone would appreciate sex, for example... my husband has been refusing me ever since he is back. He says he just came back. I don't know if he has a problem with me or he just needs to spend more time with me physically beforehand. Sometimes it seems like he considered me a stranger and he doesn't have this with our daughter who was born during his deployment. He is a great dad but doesn't want me sexually. What's wrong with me? How can I help him? Can people who have been in a similar situation give some advice? I'd very much appreciate it.