Military a good option for me?

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Levi

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I know its hard to answer these questions, but I just want some unbiased second opinions. Im 21 years old, hard worker but unfocuses. Unfocused as in I have no clue what i want to do with my life...i hate school but can work hard/do well in it when i want to. I have been out of highschool for 3 and half years now and havent done anything with my life but a few failed relationships and crappy jobs.

Im sick of trying to figure out what to do with my life and what direction i should go, and sick of living at home/no money. I love phsycology/philosophy, and talking to/helping people. The thing ive always wanted most in my life as wierd as it sounds is someone to share it with (girlfiend, ect)...i havent joined the military because im afraid it would get in the way of possible relationships. But after the bad ones ive had, im starting to learn i need to stop looking for that, and im kinda thinking the military might force that part out ofme if that makes any sense. Ive also held off the military idea because i dont know if im cut out for it or not. I also am considering joining becasue they can pick my career for me, i dont have to worry about it anymore.

And before anyone says it, im not afraid of being deployed/combat/being killed. Its just not a fear of mine. Any opinions would be appreciated. :)
 
You bet it can get in the way of relationships. The divorce rate amongst young Soldiers, Airmen, Sailors and Marines is astronomical.

Here's what you need to reconcile yourself with.... the military is more than a job. It's a lifestyle. It's a lifestyle that can easily require 60, 80 or 100 hours a week of your time. Your duties will come first, always.

You'll go where assigned and do as you're told. You'll travel, get great training that you can usually choose and make friends like you never made before, real friends, the kind that will save your *** if need be.

The pay is not great but you can qualify for some great benefits after you're finished.

You will learn to become focused or you'll be miserable.
 
Im in the same boat, the military is a very perfect (or near-perfect) option for you. My word of advice would be to pick the Air Force, as they're more technical base and would give you a better career. Go for something in electronics. But yes if you're looking for a sense of "self-discovery", the military is there for you. The military doesnt make you exactly rich but you will be "Financially Stable", meaning you'll be living on base housinng and getting 4 meals a day, at no expense. And be given a base salary of $1,300 a month so you can save up if you try.

As for women, don't worry maybe you'll meet one in the military or overseas my friend. There are about what?.. 3 billion women on Earth, they come and go you'll find one in time. If you need any help email me
 
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