saintchristianson
New member
Here are symptoms my "father" has
-Makes me people feel sorry for him
-Manipulates
-lies
-steals
-makes people feel guilty
When I was 7 he would tell me that my mom doesn't care about me and other bad things about her, at the time i was living with my mother and i soon wanted to go live with my father. So my mom let me live with him fulltime when i was in the 6th grade
I thought he was the best perosn in the world because he would take me on road trips buy me things and take me to movies.
After the eighth grade my dad started seemed sketchy. he was very judgmental and cocky
So this year things went bad, my dad would come home at late hours make me watch my half sister on weekends while he went out, when i would confront him about me watching my sister everyday, he would accuse me of not wanting to be around my sister. soon i started to ask if i could stay with my mom more, i would make excuses to get out of the house when he was there. when i was there he would sit there and tell me i was retarded and stupid and worthless because i was failing 1 class, this kept going on for a while....things got worse, i would try my hardest to avoid him because all he would do to me is accuse me of being this terrible person.. things got even more worse
So the climax of this is a group of kids at school came up to me at lunch while i was sitting with one of my closest friend who ive known since i was a baby and they were asking me to drink and smoke, i declined and the next day i was walking after school with some friends and my father calls saying that there is a rumor going around school that i drank at my friends and we were drinking her parents beer, and i told him that was ridiculous and he just said "we'll see" i called my mom right away and told her what happen and why this might happened, i told her about the kids at school and that i declined. i called my dads girlfriend and she said my closest friend told my cousin, and my cousin told my grandmother (who is the same as my father) and my grandmother told my father.
So then i stay at my mothers for about 3 days while she tells my dad what happened, he tells her i am a bad child who needs correction. so i go back to my dads and he says nothing about the events. a month goes by and i wrote a note for my mother that i was going to be at a friends house until 4....when i wrote this note for my mother it was 1 in the afternoon on a saturday! the next day i threw it in my underwear drawer at my dads, a few days go by and he accuses me of sneaking out as 4 in the morning!! he told he girlfriend and my mother he found it in my pants pocket!! so a few days later he acts like he never saw/found the note.. a month goes by its a saturday and i have been watching my sister the whole day and when my dad comes home i ask to go out to eat and to a movie with some close friends one is 17 (male) 16(female) 14(male).. he FREAKS out and starts talking about how the 17yr old is a bad kid because he killed a kid(when his steering wheel locked up no drugs/alcohol involved, one kid did die in the accident, yes) but i told him the girl who is someone he knows would be driving..long story short he threatens to hit me and tells me i am a terrible horrible kid and he is going to send me to a "facility" and tells me im phyco. he calls my mom and i grab the phone from him fast and tell her what is really going on, she calls the cops...my father tells the police that i am just upset that i am grounded for failing classes(i was failing one) and i was upset because i was grounded and couldn't go out with a bunch of 17 yr old guys and who knows what we would be doing(one was 17 and 2 were guys, we were going to a movie and to eat) and even with telling the cops the threat that my dad made they tell him"yeah we see this a lot, these teenagers nowadays, she will probably try to run"..so an hour passes he has my phone and is texting people from it....acting like me....and a kid from adifferentt state who idon'tt even know got my # fromfacebookk and my dad was talking to him pervocitivley, and the kid told my dad that i gave him a bj..my dad believes it forwards his convo to my mom saying its me, i tell her tht was from him to the kid. she knows im telling truth, So my mom gets custody of me....3 months later i ask my dad for my money back i had him hold form when i sold my horse that me and my mom paid for, he wont give it back, or buy me clothes, i am living with my mofull timeme and he is paying no child support. i talked to hs ex's to see if hes always acted this way, they all sai they went through the same exact thing, him making them feel like they will never do any better without him, him telling them he has money put away for the future and telling them lies so on and so forth, I finally stood up to him after he called my mom at work and yelled at her and made her cry he told her she was going to be a grandmother, h
-Makes me people feel sorry for him
-Manipulates
-lies
-steals
-makes people feel guilty
When I was 7 he would tell me that my mom doesn't care about me and other bad things about her, at the time i was living with my mother and i soon wanted to go live with my father. So my mom let me live with him fulltime when i was in the 6th grade
I thought he was the best perosn in the world because he would take me on road trips buy me things and take me to movies.
After the eighth grade my dad started seemed sketchy. he was very judgmental and cocky
So this year things went bad, my dad would come home at late hours make me watch my half sister on weekends while he went out, when i would confront him about me watching my sister everyday, he would accuse me of not wanting to be around my sister. soon i started to ask if i could stay with my mom more, i would make excuses to get out of the house when he was there. when i was there he would sit there and tell me i was retarded and stupid and worthless because i was failing 1 class, this kept going on for a while....things got worse, i would try my hardest to avoid him because all he would do to me is accuse me of being this terrible person.. things got even more worse
So the climax of this is a group of kids at school came up to me at lunch while i was sitting with one of my closest friend who ive known since i was a baby and they were asking me to drink and smoke, i declined and the next day i was walking after school with some friends and my father calls saying that there is a rumor going around school that i drank at my friends and we were drinking her parents beer, and i told him that was ridiculous and he just said "we'll see" i called my mom right away and told her what happen and why this might happened, i told her about the kids at school and that i declined. i called my dads girlfriend and she said my closest friend told my cousin, and my cousin told my grandmother (who is the same as my father) and my grandmother told my father.
So then i stay at my mothers for about 3 days while she tells my dad what happened, he tells her i am a bad child who needs correction. so i go back to my dads and he says nothing about the events. a month goes by and i wrote a note for my mother that i was going to be at a friends house until 4....when i wrote this note for my mother it was 1 in the afternoon on a saturday! the next day i threw it in my underwear drawer at my dads, a few days go by and he accuses me of sneaking out as 4 in the morning!! he told he girlfriend and my mother he found it in my pants pocket!! so a few days later he acts like he never saw/found the note.. a month goes by its a saturday and i have been watching my sister the whole day and when my dad comes home i ask to go out to eat and to a movie with some close friends one is 17 (male) 16(female) 14(male).. he FREAKS out and starts talking about how the 17yr old is a bad kid because he killed a kid(when his steering wheel locked up no drugs/alcohol involved, one kid did die in the accident, yes) but i told him the girl who is someone he knows would be driving..long story short he threatens to hit me and tells me i am a terrible horrible kid and he is going to send me to a "facility" and tells me im phyco. he calls my mom and i grab the phone from him fast and tell her what is really going on, she calls the cops...my father tells the police that i am just upset that i am grounded for failing classes(i was failing one) and i was upset because i was grounded and couldn't go out with a bunch of 17 yr old guys and who knows what we would be doing(one was 17 and 2 were guys, we were going to a movie and to eat) and even with telling the cops the threat that my dad made they tell him"yeah we see this a lot, these teenagers nowadays, she will probably try to run"..so an hour passes he has my phone and is texting people from it....acting like me....and a kid from adifferentt state who idon'tt even know got my # fromfacebookk and my dad was talking to him pervocitivley, and the kid told my dad that i gave him a bj..my dad believes it forwards his convo to my mom saying its me, i tell her tht was from him to the kid. she knows im telling truth, So my mom gets custody of me....3 months later i ask my dad for my money back i had him hold form when i sold my horse that me and my mom paid for, he wont give it back, or buy me clothes, i am living with my mofull timeme and he is paying no child support. i talked to hs ex's to see if hes always acted this way, they all sai they went through the same exact thing, him making them feel like they will never do any better without him, him telling them he has money put away for the future and telling them lies so on and so forth, I finally stood up to him after he called my mom at work and yelled at her and made her cry he told her she was going to be a grandmother, h