men suuuuckkkkkk where was the trust?

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i was the perfect wife for my husband for 24 yrs i mean perfect he went away to the mideast [his choice not military] and had sex with a street walker in his vehicle, when oh when will he regret it???? i stayed so true alone for 4 years! with our handicapped sonno i mean like not nagging. giving him his space, and 'you know what' he could buy what he wanted-i was affectionate but not clingy, good cook, used to call me his queen,yes philipino and chinese in kuwait, he had chinese, oh yeah the muslems hire them and take their passport so they cant leavemry dear bob they get drunk many timeswe got out of the military in 2003 and he went back as a private contractor even tho i begged him to come home he became money crazy--and stayed and stayed,
 
If he doesnt regret it...leave him... you will NEVER be able to trust him again....Tell him that if he wants to salvage the marriage then he needs to come back NOW if he is able to .....Hope this helps
 
YES THEY DO!! I AM SORRY. YES FOR SOME REASON THEY DO NOT THINK WITH THERE HEARTS LIKE US THEY THINK WITH THE LITTLE HEAD. HE MADE HIS CHOICE..AND HE MUST BE A MAN AND TAKE THE RESULTS. IT IS WRONG TO CHEAT PERIOD!! WELL I HOPE YOU LEFT HIS WEAK ASS ALONE FOR AT LEAST A MONTH SO, HE KNOWS WHAT HE HAS. LET HIM BEG FOR YOU. I WOULD.
 
wow....I am sorry you are so unhappy...I guess he has made his choice and now it it your turn..you need to know you deserve to be happy and have a husband who you CAN trust...I am not saying it is going to be easy and it really sounds like it is going to be hard...so hard trying to make this work or hard making yourself whole again...I will keep you in my thoughts and know that it will get better...maybe not right away but it will...
 
Sorry to be the one to burst your bubble, But their is no such thing as perfect!~!That's not what men really are about, Everyone really want's a changes in , Some time I found that out!!!
 
They don't have street walkers in the middle east. You can't even buy a beer in the middle east.
 
sorry but no one is perfect. no this isn't your entirely your fault but maybe you need a wake up call to realize you make mistakes too. only then will you be able to repair the damage
 
If you have basically been "alone" for 4 years, then I would say that your marriage has been long over. However, you did not say why he went to the mideast and you stayed behind or what the plans were. How do you know that he does not regret sleeping with this "street walker?" If you two really love each other and want to make this work then you need to devote all the time you can to doing just that. Including therapy or marriage counseling. You may be able to forgive, but forgetting is hard.
 
You picked him. I sure there were signs way before this. Divorce the jerk and take all his money.....
 
Im sorry you had to go through this, I hate to judge or be sexist but yes men do fuckin suck big time,90% of them are perverted selfish two faced liars. Im only 28 and been fucked over by every guy I dated no matter how good I was,my dad cheated on my mom who is also a good wife and my two best friends got cheated on by the scum they have kids with, the world would be such a nice place without these nasty lying scummers!
 
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