Men: Do you feel the woman is in control if she says no to sex?

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Perhaps you mean that she has the right to say No and that he should respect that right. This is a human right to choose. Control is a different issue. If you want to control a situation, you need to use good judgment as well so that you don't put yourself in the wrong place at the wrong time and under bad circumstances.

Always be prudent, be mindful of who you are, who you are with and where you are. That is control. Using your brain is the power.

Do something stupid and you could lose that power.

Best wishes. Be safe.
 
Perhaps you mean that she has the right to say No and that he should respect that right. This is a human right to choose. Control is a different issue. If you want to control a situation, you need to use good judgment as well so that you don't put yourself in the wrong place at the wrong time and under bad circumstances.

Always be prudent, be mindful of who you are, who you are with and where you are. That is control. Using your brain is the power.

Do something stupid and you could lose that power.

Best wishes. Be safe.
 
It can be an effective control method, but you might be giving him a reason to get it from someone else.
 
it doesn't really matter if she says no because its just sex, there is a lot of other things we could do
sex isn't the most important thing
 
No, I think she's not in the mood, has a headache, it's that time of the month. However if she says it too often, then I be gone.
 
I must be the luckiest man alive...my wife never says no...and even when she isn't in the mood, I know how to push the right "buttons" to change her mood.
 
no, I feel like she is either trying to assert her dominance or just wants to wait. you obviously don't deserve a caring husband if you view sex as a portrayal of dominance. That is obviously it if you bothered to ask.
 
If the woman says no to sex then yes she is in control. That is the definition of control, you are the gate keeper!
 
I'm not a man, but yes, of course we have that power. Just like, if he was to say no, we couldn't really MAKE him have sex.
 
Ultimately yes! Even when you girls give in their is that control factor. A situation in the past occurred with a girl I was dating and she always said no when we got to that point. But finally after persuading her we had sex, afterward I felt horrible because I felt I forced her into it...thank heaven she decided to call me back!
 
What kind of question is this?
The woman should have the power
to whether she gets something stuck
in her or if she doesn't.
 
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