Men and their interest in the opposite sex? Sincerety?

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I can't help my paranoia over men and sex.

I'm getting stressed because I need the satisfaction of a significant other, however, the only men that are interested in me are completely out of my age range-I get hit on by men anywhere from 23-30 years old. I am interested in them too, but I don't want to be screwed and out the door.

So, generally, all men want sex-regardless of their age. But is it possible that a man is sincerely interested in a younger woman (younger meaning 18) for something other than sex?

I find it strange that an established/secure older man would want anything to do with a young/fresh/just starting life girl.

All opinions PLEASE. Criticism accepted.
My past has a lot of younger guys that hurt me-an excessive amount of bad experiences. Concluding that maybe older men are the route to go. Maybe it's just men in general. I need therapy, I suppose.

These answers are all great so far!
 
I feel sad for you that you feel a paranoia over men and sex, relationships should be free of such stresses. I imagine many men may be interested in younger women perhaps because of a perception or hope that younger woman might be more interested in them, more ready for sex but I think generalizing is unfair. Sometimes an interest in a woman can be closer to platonic as opposed to sexual or it may be more emotional or simply down to the man's pride and wish to be desirable and young.

I suggest that you look for a guy closer to your age if possible.
Take care of yourself.
 
Not all guys want an 18 year old girl just for sex. I'm a 24 year old guy that would be happy to just be with a girl to have fun and just be there for each other when needed. I dated a 19 year old girl for awhile and I loved it. She was so cool just wanting to chill and stuff. We never did the deed cuz she wasent ready and I respected her for it. I honestly don't care how old she is as long as she likes me and we can have fun together. So ya it is possible to find one just where idk. I'm in so cal hahaha. Hope u find what your looken for.
 
well im older & there nothing like a fresh piece of taint on the stick ! lol . just kidding . you have to bring something to the table but if your only asset is your ass-set what else can you expect
 
well... i myself am dating a -16 years older than me guy-
yes all guys want sex.. and ofcoure it's hotter to him to have a younger woman.. but if u reached that circle of younger men.. DAMN you'll find them all interested ( in sex) let's talk about another thing..
u wanna find someone interested in you.. i bet you are a smart woman, and funny so.. guys also like funny girls..

bottom line: you'll find the man with ur desired age... just mingle with guys of that age.. don't let ur community is all out of older men, and wonder where all the hot young dudes go??

good luck :)
 
I think you're right on target with your thoughts. I don't know very many 20-23 year old men that seek steady relationships over one-night stands, especially with 18 year olds. It's not impossible, of course, as there is no time frame or age limit on true love, but it is unlikely. For one thing, men this age are typically in college or getting out of college and trying to look for a career. They are usually not ready to settle and usually don't have time to maintain a relationship because their focus is concentrated elsewhere. They want to have as much fun as possible outside the stressful uncertainty of their futures. I am a 22 year old female who is a senior in college, and I am surrounded daily by men this age. Some of them have found the women they want to be with for the rest of their lives and are capable at this age of being accountable and trustworthy, but most of them are buck-wild freebirds that you should be wary of.

Don't make the same mistake I did. I KNOW that it is easier said than done, but for the salvation of your own sensitive heart, please hold out and have the courage to wait for the man that you fall in love with before you have sex. There is nothing worse than regret. I'm pretty sure I know how you are feeling right now...you know you are capable of giving great passion and love and you just want the chance to give it. DON'T WASTE IT on someone unworthy of you...you'll be more empty than you've ever felt.

Hope I helped a little, even though it probs isn't what you wanted to hear :/
 
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