Taker is a God
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My bf and I have been living together around five months. I feel is though he is trying to change my way of living. Two small questions I have are do you believe you should keep ur daily medicine in the kitchen or bathroom medicine cabinet? I have been on pills since I was a child and have always had them in the kitchen.The medicine cabinet is I think more for tooth paste, shaving cream, aftershave, and whatnot. Another thing is ever since I was a kid I have had a cat my cat's liter box has been in the basement. My parents put the liter box in the basement which is where I put my current cat's box. Everyone I know who has a basement puts their cat's box there. I could understand if you were in a home that didn't have a basement. Where do you or your friends put theirs?
You want to answer a few more personally questions?
How about sleep?
I have for the longest time been waking up between 7-8 and going to bed between 11-12. It seems now my sleep schedule is waking as late as noon to going to bed as late as 3:30. My bf wants us to go to bed at the same time and he has always went to bed late and woke up not so earlier since he says he has always worked third shift. Some times I feel I can't stay up past midnight and he gets upset I want to go to bed "so early."
Music?
Also, how much are you into music? I don't play any instrument, but in free time and maybe while cleaning or perhaps online browsing, I enjoy listening to music. There is only one band we mutually agree on. I basically listen to everything but most rap, country and jazz. 99% of what he listens to is country, and I can understand him wanting to hear his music but he won't let me listen to mine. he says its bc unfortunately when a child he was raped by ex-step brothers and they listened to it. I'm sorry but I love hearing Korn, Green Day, Linkin Park, some Lady Gaga, Weird Al and some more. He disagrees upon me getting an mp3 player bc he doesn't want me to pay more attention to it than that but i figure that's the way I can here it. he has one anyway he uses at working and when traveling. If it isn't that way its listening to it when he's not home and currently he's working through a temp service.
One final big question: Sex?
What is your opinion on when you should make love? I've always pictured it as when the mood is right and when both parties want to. he says he has been used to at least once a day. I don't have that huge of a sex drive but he says how he's used to it. So 9 out of 10 times since we've been a couple when he wanted to go to the bedroom we do. A thing that gets to me about all of this is I am who put the icing on the cake for him to come back to my home town. we were friends and after he moving approximately 3 hours away we pretty much lost track. after we began to talk again he was now maybe 6-8 hours away. he moved back to here and moved in with me. I don't about him wanting to change things. I love him and there is many good times but some times we remind me of my parents who divorced after 10 years.
Do you agree with any or all of what he thinks and has been trying to change me upon? You think I may just need to stick with what I've always done?
You want to answer a few more personally questions?
How about sleep?
I have for the longest time been waking up between 7-8 and going to bed between 11-12. It seems now my sleep schedule is waking as late as noon to going to bed as late as 3:30. My bf wants us to go to bed at the same time and he has always went to bed late and woke up not so earlier since he says he has always worked third shift. Some times I feel I can't stay up past midnight and he gets upset I want to go to bed "so early."
Music?
Also, how much are you into music? I don't play any instrument, but in free time and maybe while cleaning or perhaps online browsing, I enjoy listening to music. There is only one band we mutually agree on. I basically listen to everything but most rap, country and jazz. 99% of what he listens to is country, and I can understand him wanting to hear his music but he won't let me listen to mine. he says its bc unfortunately when a child he was raped by ex-step brothers and they listened to it. I'm sorry but I love hearing Korn, Green Day, Linkin Park, some Lady Gaga, Weird Al and some more. He disagrees upon me getting an mp3 player bc he doesn't want me to pay more attention to it than that but i figure that's the way I can here it. he has one anyway he uses at working and when traveling. If it isn't that way its listening to it when he's not home and currently he's working through a temp service.
One final big question: Sex?
What is your opinion on when you should make love? I've always pictured it as when the mood is right and when both parties want to. he says he has been used to at least once a day. I don't have that huge of a sex drive but he says how he's used to it. So 9 out of 10 times since we've been a couple when he wanted to go to the bedroom we do. A thing that gets to me about all of this is I am who put the icing on the cake for him to come back to my home town. we were friends and after he moving approximately 3 hours away we pretty much lost track. after we began to talk again he was now maybe 6-8 hours away. he moved back to here and moved in with me. I don't about him wanting to change things. I love him and there is many good times but some times we remind me of my parents who divorced after 10 years.
Do you agree with any or all of what he thinks and has been trying to change me upon? You think I may just need to stick with what I've always done?