i agree with the guy above... i used to be an extremely nice person and then people started to take advantage... so i got this noble concept that i will be the only person that loves me as much as i wanna be loved... family friends and cohorts come and go... in this life you gotta get and do what the fuck you wanna do... now you have the choice from there on if or not you wanna respect people while you tell them to politely fuck off.... just grab your nuts suck it up and realize everything happens for a reason... lead follow or get the fuck out of the way... dont just sit there and cry about it... somebody treating you like shit... tell them to get fucked... problems solved... set a standard for yourself on how you wanna be treated and what levels you are willing to comprimise with others and stick the fuck too it...
you might be a little bit too confrontational for some people to handle. That happens alot of the time. Kind of ease your way around instead of just being so out front it. That way it is easier for other people to understand. Otherwise they laugh in your face or get mad or treat you like dirt and so forth. I learned that the hard way.
I do know how to fight, I guess I'm just like a girl in that I want to nurture relationships (however shitty they may be), by not beating the shit out of anybody. Does anybody know any ways to relieve guilt?