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littlemunchie

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WHY IN FUCKING HELL DOESN'T ANYBODY LIKE ME!? I fucking do EVERYTHING for EVERYBODY! Yet I STILL don't get any respect. No matter how FUCKING nice I am everybody still fucking treats me like dirt. And even if I retaliate, they laugh in my face and FUCKING WALK AWAY! AM I SUCH A DISLIKABLE PERSON? :sad:
 
Then you are a loser.
No one cares about you if you take shit.
Now, that does not mean that you shall whine, just give them a punch in the face or something.
 
I could never bring myself to do that, not ever. Well at least, not unless they had done something completely and unspeakably horrible to me.
 
That's your problem, more than likely. It's sad to say, but people probably treat you like crap because they know they can. You probably let people people walk all over you like you're a doormat. Now, think about--when was the last time you repected a doormat? I'm guessing never.

If you go well out of your way to do things for people that you don't really want to do or are uncomfortable doing and they can sense that you've compromised yourself, they'll lose respect for you. That doesn't mean you should be a prick. It just means you should know your limits, set some boundaries and stick with them.
 
Boundaries meaning, for example, knowing when someone is trying to take advantage of you and not going along with it. That doesn't make you a bad person. You can still be nice without letting people shit on you.
 
Hahaha, this thread is hilarious.

You can do one of three things:
1) Sit there and whine about it like a faggot, making no attempt to figure out what the problem is.
2) Quit being a pussy, target the problem, and do something about it.
3) Shut the fuck up.

Which one looks most appealing to you?
 
Be nice to those who deserve it. Don't be nice to those who don't. Give people what they deserve from you.

So, in order to get people to be nice to you, you have to do 5 things:

1) show them that if they're nice to you, you'll be nice to them in return.

2) show them that if they're not nice, you won't be either

3) show them that they have something to gain by your being nice, create a positive, desirable, image of yourself.

4) show them that they are missing out if you're not nice to them.

5) show them that it's all the same to you, and that you don't give a fuck about them, but if they want something, they have to earn it.

So to sum it up, you have to show people that you're someone who doesn't take shit from anyone, but who is truly good to have around once someone gets on his good side. Make people work for your friendship, they'll attach more value to it, and respect it more. Basically you have to create the idea that it is a hard to earn privilege to be you friend, or to be someone who is liked by you.

The catch is that, in order for this whole thing to work is that you actually have to be intelligent, good looking, knowledgeable, eloquent and witty. Work on those characteristics, then apply the above method. If you aren't and can't become any of the above, you're pretty much doomed.

Never let people know that you need them. Don't need them. They must need, or want, to be with you.

Just my opinion on how to succeed in society.
 
lampy is right you have three choices...
stop being everybodys bitch
fucking pussie, you need to earn respect would you respect someone who let you walk all over them?
 
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