Me and the GF discussed boundaries last night, and thankfully we were on the same page. We are both mid-twenties and very serious. Tell me if you agree with these:
It's inappropriate to stay at a friend of the opposite sexes house without the other being there
If one of us was out of town, it would not be OK for the other to go out and have a drink with the someone of the opposite sex
It would be OK to have lunch or coffee with someone of the opposite sex, as long as we knew about it.
We both pretty much said we wouldn't tell the other NO to any of these, but that we would expect that the other would be respectful enough of the relationship to not think that it would be appropriate. It was refreshing to hear that we were on the same page!!!
It's inappropriate to stay at a friend of the opposite sexes house without the other being there
If one of us was out of town, it would not be OK for the other to go out and have a drink with the someone of the opposite sex
It would be OK to have lunch or coffee with someone of the opposite sex, as long as we knew about it.
We both pretty much said we wouldn't tell the other NO to any of these, but that we would expect that the other would be respectful enough of the relationship to not think that it would be appropriate. It was refreshing to hear that we were on the same page!!!