me and my friend have been arguing about it..?

[sean-parker:D]

so there is this girl,who's a mutual friend of me and my gf ..we've been friends -not close though-for over a year maybe..honestly i am not her biggest fan..

but i do like her,we hang out at school a lot(me,her,&my gf)..
but lately ;she seems to be a bit toooo clingy to my gf..

i wouldnt have givin' it much of attention,if it wasn't for my gf and her friends..they 've been saying that the girl is weird, and that they think that the girl is a lesbian!!!

very alarming to my gf and i ..especially her..i've been watching her lately,she IS TOO CLINGY.. she feels her up !!..she touches her hands..(which is weird b'cuz,that girl isn't very affectionate toward ppl)
tickles her a lot(sometimes in the wrong places!!!)

at recess she puts her legs on my gf's knees or legs..
she looks at her all lovy and stuff..

idk but a big part of me still thinks that she's just being a girl..but idk aren't all girls like that?

my gf is FREAKING OUT about it..very much panicing..but idk know what do U think about it?

BTW,THE GIRL IS VERY HOMOPHOBIC,AND ALWAYS SAYS THINGS REGARDING HOMOPHBIC PPL ,INCLUDING ''THANK GOD I'M NOT GAY!!!''
HELP PLZ!!

 

[Collette]

Maybe your girlfriend should speak to her and explain that she gets freaked out when people are too touchy feely with her. The friend may not like this but it should stop her from being too full on. Just because she is possibly a lesbian it doesn't mean she may have feelings for your girlfriend, and even if she does if you both love eachother than you should not let it bother you.