My future "hubby to be" had a fight yesterday over his dad and every time something goes wrong between me and his "wonderful" father I end up being the one in the dog box.
So here's what happened:
Yesterday morning my fiance showed his father a medal he won at the IPS shooting national shooting Competition his response was "you showed me last night where you drunk? Every time we go out then he has a comment about us being drunk but we never over indulge in alcohol. So my finance was upset about this and said "no dad I wasn't drunk, why are you always saying I am drunk." I got angry about this and told my fiance in our bedroom that I am really tired about your father's comments about us always being drunk and I am not an alcoholic.
My parents were coming over for a Barbecue and I asked my fiance to please go to the supermarket for some items that we didn't have. I was just finishing off with mopping the floor and his dad come in and walk mud all over the floor and had to re mop it. I was fuming as it was already 10:30am and I wanted to go and shower and was my hair etc.
When I got out the shower and went to my bedroom I started to smell smoke, here is his father at 11:10am starting the Barbecue by then I was cooking as my dad and mom was only arriving at 1:00pm as agreed upon and my dad likes to enjoy a few beers before a hand. When my fiance then I told him I am really not happy and stormed out my room and threw water over the fire. His dad turned around and went to his bedroom and shut the door. Me and my fiance had our first big fight of the day.
When my parents come he come out of his room and several times went out from the front yard through the house to the backyard to go and pee. My dogs where out in the back (I put my 5 month old labrador puppy out there because my mom brought my brothers baby with her for the day and my puppy is very jumpy and I was scared she would hurt the baby) the wind come up rather strong and he went out again to the backyard but with this he didn't hold onto the door and the door slammed against my puppies head hard and she screamed blue murder the poor thing. I jumped up and ran outside to see if she was okay. My poor puppy was so startled and screaming that she wouldn't come to me and was running up and down in the yard and then he started to call her and then she was more hysterical. He then mad me blow my top off and I asked him "what are you looking for outside here go in!! he replied "listen here its my business what I am looking for outside not yours". I finally go hold of my poor puppy and charmed her down and checked her out that she was okay and checked her hearing for fear that the blow has damaged her hearing and he was starring at me the whole time rather annoyed like to tell me leave the bathroom I want to pee. So I turned around and walked back into the house and said out of frustration " that comes from being a idiot and not knowing what a toilet is used for before I opened the door." When I opened the door my fiance was standing there and asked me what I said nothing just nothing.
His dad come in a long while later and went back to his room and shut the door and stayed their until the food was ready.
Last night my fiance and me had another fight and i told him:
He always takes his dads side
He loves his dad more than me
I have told his dad hundreds of times to be careful if the wind is blowing with the doors and my dog
His dad made me feel that he didn't want my parents here when he started the fire so early
My dog could have been dead with that blow to her head
I have a right to be mad
I will take my dog and move out
and I have told his dad hundreds of times to use the toilet coz its disgusting to pee outside and the people next door can see they have told me
He still takes his side, My question was I wrong to have been so mad?
Honest opines please and other thing my finance has mad many fall-outs with my parents and as I could finance I have always supported him
Also his dad stays with us. His parents got divorced 11 years ago because his mom found a man that had a heart and soul. He lost all his money during the divorce because he prolonged the process. He has no money, no car, no house etc.
So here's what happened:
Yesterday morning my fiance showed his father a medal he won at the IPS shooting national shooting Competition his response was "you showed me last night where you drunk? Every time we go out then he has a comment about us being drunk but we never over indulge in alcohol. So my finance was upset about this and said "no dad I wasn't drunk, why are you always saying I am drunk." I got angry about this and told my fiance in our bedroom that I am really tired about your father's comments about us always being drunk and I am not an alcoholic.
My parents were coming over for a Barbecue and I asked my fiance to please go to the supermarket for some items that we didn't have. I was just finishing off with mopping the floor and his dad come in and walk mud all over the floor and had to re mop it. I was fuming as it was already 10:30am and I wanted to go and shower and was my hair etc.
When I got out the shower and went to my bedroom I started to smell smoke, here is his father at 11:10am starting the Barbecue by then I was cooking as my dad and mom was only arriving at 1:00pm as agreed upon and my dad likes to enjoy a few beers before a hand. When my fiance then I told him I am really not happy and stormed out my room and threw water over the fire. His dad turned around and went to his bedroom and shut the door. Me and my fiance had our first big fight of the day.
When my parents come he come out of his room and several times went out from the front yard through the house to the backyard to go and pee. My dogs where out in the back (I put my 5 month old labrador puppy out there because my mom brought my brothers baby with her for the day and my puppy is very jumpy and I was scared she would hurt the baby) the wind come up rather strong and he went out again to the backyard but with this he didn't hold onto the door and the door slammed against my puppies head hard and she screamed blue murder the poor thing. I jumped up and ran outside to see if she was okay. My poor puppy was so startled and screaming that she wouldn't come to me and was running up and down in the yard and then he started to call her and then she was more hysterical. He then mad me blow my top off and I asked him "what are you looking for outside here go in!! he replied "listen here its my business what I am looking for outside not yours". I finally go hold of my poor puppy and charmed her down and checked her out that she was okay and checked her hearing for fear that the blow has damaged her hearing and he was starring at me the whole time rather annoyed like to tell me leave the bathroom I want to pee. So I turned around and walked back into the house and said out of frustration " that comes from being a idiot and not knowing what a toilet is used for before I opened the door." When I opened the door my fiance was standing there and asked me what I said nothing just nothing.
His dad come in a long while later and went back to his room and shut the door and stayed their until the food was ready.
Last night my fiance and me had another fight and i told him:
He always takes his dads side
He loves his dad more than me
I have told his dad hundreds of times to be careful if the wind is blowing with the doors and my dog
His dad made me feel that he didn't want my parents here when he started the fire so early
My dog could have been dead with that blow to her head
I have a right to be mad
I will take my dog and move out
and I have told his dad hundreds of times to use the toilet coz its disgusting to pee outside and the people next door can see they have told me
He still takes his side, My question was I wrong to have been so mad?
Honest opines please and other thing my finance has mad many fall-outs with my parents and as I could finance I have always supported him
Also his dad stays with us. His parents got divorced 11 years ago because his mom found a man that had a heart and soul. He lost all his money during the divorce because he prolonged the process. He has no money, no car, no house etc.