me and my bf wanna have sex but idk what to do help me?

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me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and we have been talking bout havin sex. we are both virgins and idk what to do...
 
1. Don't get pregnant. If you are unsure in the least how to ensure this result, STOP, and research various ways. (Not having sex is one very reliable way, but works against your stated goal.)

2. Make sure #1 is addressed in a reliable manner.

3. Did you take care of #1? If not, stop and go back.

4. Ok then. Start with, oh, kissing, or a light snack plate which you feed to each other. Likely your partner is clueless too, so only do what you both want to. Explore, have fun, don't set an agenda (except for #1, which is important). People tend to figure out this sort of thing on a daily basis, and have for millennia. Communicate with your partner such basic information as "that's good", "no, stop", or even "how about you do this" if he's being annoyingly hesitant. If you've never before seen a live, semi-naked or naked, probably aroused human body this up close and personal, relax and remember that field research is one of life's best learning methods.

5. Remember #1. When employing your solution to #1, explain very clearly to your partner that, unless #1 happens, nothing else does. This is important. Don't skip this part.

6. If you have a "this is the big night" mentally marked on your calendar, shower before meeting up, and wear what you consider to be an alluring outfit, at all layers. If all your groceries are going to be unloaded, make sure he's taking them out of attractive packaging. Likely you'll both enjoy this part.

7. #1 is a dealbreaker. Remember #1.
 
any store will let u buy condoms no matter ur age. i buy them all the time and im 15.. its alright if u mess up .. its a learning experience
 
Depends on how old you are. Don't do it if you are just teenagers. You will regret it
 
Be sure to use a condom.

Otherwise, do whatever feels good. Worst case you can always just lie there and make him do all the work. Sex is one of those things that you get better at the more you do, it so just relax and don't stress out about it.
 
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