Married for 27 years and I am 45 years old and I am not interested in sex. Is this

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normal? Or any solutions? I have been married for 27 years and my husband wants sex and I am not interested at all. I want to know if there are other women who are my age and have been married as long as I have who experience the same thing. If you are in a long time relationship like mine and still have a desire, what is the secret?
 
I work for an OB/GYN and this is very common at your age. Please call and make an appointment to go and talk to him/her. There is help out there.

Of course if you don't want help, I don't know what to tell you. Role play? Fantasize? Dress up?
 
Ouch! Perhaps if the relationship is doomed get the man anther woman and do a threesome to send him off right!
 
I feel for you. I'm not your age nor have I been in such a long relationship but I did have a thought -- when I was in my twenties my sex drive was like nil for some reason. My boyfriend dealt with it surprisingly well, year after year. Finally, I decided to try something in order to get more on the same page as he was. I did this (sorry if this is gross, but) um.. I used a certain toy like once a day until I actually looked forward to sex. Hope this helps.
 
in a marital book i was reading it said something like having sex with your husband is part of the covenant that we made when we got married. She compared it to not always feeling like fixing your kids dinne, if you had any, but knowing that they had to eat. Not always feeling like cleaning up, but knowing it needed to be done. She said to think of it as a need for your spouse and that will help get you in the mood more and become more initiative. Men are always physical creatures just like women need nice words and affection. Think of it less as a chore and more as a fun and new experience. And try some new things to spice it up.
 
umm yu should do it and give him a real big hot orgasm and let him stick it in yu really good if yu dont want a baby tell him to wear a condom or else we wont do it and gt really horny its more sexier like that and maybe have sex in the shower or while in a bath or surprise him by telling him to be in the room and come in naked pull down his pants and suck his penis slowly move it to your vagina and make sure hes blind folded that would be hot!
 
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