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Diane Just Got Married!!!
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...financial problems? I do not know what to do. He is standoffish and is extremely hard on me. He used to talk with me about everything....we shared our lives. He tells me he cant talk to me and I do not know why. He used to love our talks and any advice that I gave him to help him overcome a problem. We would brainstorm together.....now, he sees me as negative and I do not know why.
A few weeks ago, he was tearing up and said that he feels he has dragged me down. And that his problems were his, not mine and that those problems are hurting our marriage. I have helped him in more ways that I can count.....money, physical labor in his business (hard labor)...to save him money. One minute he compliments me telling me what an awesome helpmate and friend I have been to him.....the next minute, if I make a mistake or say something he doesn't like....he picks at me and is so hard on me.....I feel I have to be perfect. We used to be best friends.....but it is like he is pulling away from me, and I do not know what I did to deserve that.....I do not know what to do. I sold my home to help him financially......I am so lost, alone.....sounds like a huge pity party....maybe, but I put all my love, dreams, hopes, faith into this man and our marriage.......Help....I am too close to the situation to see.
A few weeks ago, he was tearing up and said that he feels he has dragged me down. And that his problems were his, not mine and that those problems are hurting our marriage. I have helped him in more ways that I can count.....money, physical labor in his business (hard labor)...to save him money. One minute he compliments me telling me what an awesome helpmate and friend I have been to him.....the next minute, if I make a mistake or say something he doesn't like....he picks at me and is so hard on me.....I feel I have to be perfect. We used to be best friends.....but it is like he is pulling away from me, and I do not know what I did to deserve that.....I do not know what to do. I sold my home to help him financially......I am so lost, alone.....sounds like a huge pity party....maybe, but I put all my love, dreams, hopes, faith into this man and our marriage.......Help....I am too close to the situation to see.