marriage counselors few if [any] condemn ...swinging?

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I read on the web. that few if [any] marriage counselors will tell a couple not to do swinging. providing that they have a good marriage of long standing. And that there are no problems in the relationship. Is this true? Also is it true that swinging couples have a lower divorce rate ?
are they a wise lot or what !
 
I've never met a counselor that would say that.

I have heard many times that swingers have a lower divorce rate.
 
probably. one time i went to see our counselor alone and she said that an affair was an option. she also told my wife to get some porn and watch it. i think she knows that some women are frigid and they need a kick in the pants otherwise the man is going to go down in flames.
 
If the couple has a good marriage of long standing then why are they seeing a counselor in the first place?
 
"providing that they have a good marriage of long standing. And that there are no problems in the relationship." -this is key. If that is what a couple chooses to do for fun together......
Their communication is probably stronger than in most marriages if they can make that work.

If both parties enjoy it and have boundaries they respect with each other than I don't see the big deal. It would be like a shared hobby...like golf but more exciting:)
 
I'm guessing so.....but that's sorta like the Warden of the jail letting all the convicts free.
 
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